Simple Stay at Home Date Night Ideas

May 1, 2020

By now some people are tired of being at home and are aching to go back to living their best life. That's understandable, but for now, remember that it is in our best interest so please stay home. Advisory aside, being on lockdown with a partner can either be detrimental or beneficial to the relationship. It's up to both parties to determine how it is affected. One way to ensure that the effects are beneficial is to make sure that your daily routines are not drastically changed while at home i.e. date nights are not cancelled. In fact, if you had date night once per week, you now have extra time to do so more than once. Before you say "But Kimberley we're supposed to stay home". You’d be surprised how much date night activities can be done at home. Here are some simple stay at home date night ideas.

Cook Together

In a previous post, I mentioned upgrading cooking skills as one activity we can do at this time. I've also seen some posts on social media where people complain that they're tired of cooking. I know that cooking is an arduous task especially when it is done more often than usual. Since we're spending more time at home we are cooking more frequently. Cooking with your partner is one way to spice things up and make it seem like less of a chore. Whether you are a whiz in the kitchen or a newbie the internet has you covered with tasty recipes you can try using the ingredients you have on hand. You can choose to make something new or one of your favourite meals. Cooking together is guaranteed to generate a few laughs and funny stories to share in the future.

Have Dinner by Candlelight

Speaking of cooking, if you miss the fancy dining experience at a restaurant you can create your own. Prepare a meal from scratch or order take out from your favourite restaurant and then set the mood. Set the table, dim your lights or use actual candles if you have them, get dressed and enjoy your DIY candlelit dinner. This gives you a reason to dress up even if you are not going further than your dining room. As far as stay at home date night ideas go candlelit dinners are a must-do. Think of this as a way to jazz up your everyday meals at home. The best part is you get to have a romantic evening without leaving the confines of your house.

Watch Movies

Seeing a movie will forever be a classic date night activity. The bright side of having a movie date at home is you can see as many films as you choose in one sitting. You can decide on a theme and stick to movies within the theme or just wing it and watch old favourites. I highly recommend rom-coms since they are romantic but not too mushy for a man to enjoy. You can go all out to get the ultimate theatre experience. This may be done by building a fort with pillows and blankets and gathering enough savoury and sweet snacks, popcorn included. Finally, you get cosy and enjoy the movie or movies of your choice.

Play Games

Bring out those old board games and embrace your competitive side. I always say a little competition never hurt anyone, that is, until I start losing at dominos. Fortunately, dominos isn't a two-person game, so you do not have to share my experience. I love playing games and I know I'm not alone in saying that. There are so many games to choose from, whether you're into board games, role-playing games or video games there is something for you and your partner to enjoy. You can compete in video games. I always prefer combat games to car racing for the mere fact that I have a 'fighting' chance at winning. Let's just say if I'm to drive anything like the way I drive in video games I would need a road to myself with no turns. πŸ˜‚

Solve a Puzzle

Putting together a puzzle is a great way to bond with your partner. Some of the best conversations can be had while doing a puzzle. I know a lot of people may not enjoy puzzles but there is something relaxing about working on and completing a puzzle. As a couple, it gives you a goal, albeit short-term, to work towards. There is also a sense of accomplishment when you complete it. I definitely enjoy puzzles. The last one I did took a few days to complete. Giant puzzles are the best. I prefer the ones with bigger pieces as it can be frustrating to realize that there are pieces missing when you are close to completion and this can happen easily with smaller pieces.

Have a Spa Night

Homemade or store-bought face masks, bath bombs, massage oils, lotions, scented candles, these are the perfect tools for your DIY spa night. We all love to be pampered and this is a great way to relax and enjoy some much needed TLC with your partner. You can take turns giving each other massages, foot rubs or whatever else it is that makes you relax. A quick tutorial on massages can turn you into a pro in no time. Ladies pay no attention to the naysayers i.e. men, who will reject the idea initially and then secretly enjoy it. If massages aren't your thing a long soak in the bath should also do the trick. You do not need to leave home to enjoy the spa experience. This date night idea allows you to rejuvenate and make memories with your partner without breaking the bank.

Indulge in Desserts

You know how occasionally people go wine tasting? Do that but with desserts. Get a bunch of desserts like an assortment of chocolates, cheesecakes or ice cream flavours and indulge. Take turns to sample each dessert and then talk about the ones you enjoyed. This gives you a chance to satisfy your sweet tooth. Shake things up a bit by challenging each other to guess flavours through a blind taste test. If you are on a diet this date idea is a romantic and guilt-free way to cheat. Since we are talking about desserts a bottle of wine would be the perfect pairing. So, pour a glass or two and just enjoy this time together.

Read a Book Together

Reading is certainly not a typical date idea however, it can be an amazing experience if done right. It is also the perfect date for book lovers. You may read separate books and then talk about what you've read or choose a book you both enjoy and take turns reading to each other. Add to the fun by changing your tone or accent for different characters. Reading is already an adventure, and this allows you to share the journey with your partner. This activity gives you date ideas for several days since you may not complete the book in one night.

Indoor Paint and Sip

I got this idea from an Instagram story and just thought it was really cool. Painting while sipping wine is super fun even if you are not an art lover. It is even more exciting when doing it in the comfort of your home with your partner. All you need are some art supplies, a steady hand and YouTube. Painting can be a relaxing activity. An indoor paint and sip date allows you to relax at home with your person while exploring your creative side. This can easily fall into the simple category because it does not require a lot.

Talk about stuff and things

I know you might be thinking, "talking isn't a date, we do that every day". But do you really communicate? It's a common mistake for us to think that we communicate with someone regularly simply because we see them every day. However, we don't necessarily always have meaningful conversations. In my opinion "Hun, please take out the trash", isn't meaningful communication. While talking may not be an ideal date night idea, late-night conversations over coffee or wine can be awesome. Taking time to communicate with your partner can yield amazing results. You can talk about your future goals, share stories or plan a trip together for when this is over. You can even use the time to create a bucket list of things you want to achieve together. The possibilities are endless when it comes to communicating and finding things to talk about.


We all love a good date night. Being at home doesn't mean you can't enjoy going on a date. Some of the most romantic or amazing dates you will have will be some of the simplest. I may have given you a few ideas but your stay-at-home date night experience is only limited by your imagination. Most activities can easily be modified so they can be done at home. We don't know how long this situation will last so we may as well make it work.

Have you tried any of these yet? Tell me in the comments below.

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  • Reply Leah February 2, 2021 at 11:58 am

    I love doing date nights at home. My husband and I enjoy playing scrabble with a cocktail or a craft beer to feel like we are out and about, but really are just comfortable at home. I love the paint and sip idea though, we will need to try that!

    • Reply Kimberley February 4, 2021 at 6:45 pm

      It must be lovely to have someone who enjoys at-home date nights as much as you do. I’m happy I gave you an idea. Thanks for reading!

  • Reply February 1, 2021 at 8:30 pm

    Great at-home date night ideas!! Can’t wait to try some with the hubby. Thanks for sharing πŸ™‚

    • Reply Kimberley February 1, 2021 at 10:29 pm

      I’m happy you found them useful. Thanks for reading!

  • Reply Angel Morgan February 1, 2021 at 12:05 pm

    I love this! My fiance and I do some of these, and others like the paint and sip are unique ideas! So important right now:)

    • Reply Kimberley February 1, 2021 at 3:20 pm

      It is important to maintain a happy relatioinship. Thanks for reading!

  • Reply Kelly February 1, 2021 at 9:50 am

    We’ve done a lot of these together. We love puzzles, and we’re currently working on one.

    • Reply Kimberley February 1, 2021 at 3:10 pm

      That’s awesome, I love puzzles too but I haven’t done one in a while.

  • Reply Hong August 1, 2020 at 5:43 pm

    Fab ideas- thank you

  • Reply Cathy August 1, 2020 at 8:38 am

    Oh I love the puzzle idea! Thank you so much for these great tips! πŸ™‚

    • Reply Kimberley August 1, 2020 at 3:23 pm

      Puzzles are awesome. I’m happy you found them useful.

  • Reply Katherine July 31, 2020 at 7:51 pm

    Great ideas! I think I might do stuff and things!

  • Reply Lina July 31, 2020 at 3:46 pm

    These are such awesome ideas! Simple is always best!

    • Reply Kimberley July 31, 2020 at 8:53 pm

      I agree, thanks for reading!

  • Reply Delightful Parenting July 31, 2020 at 10:30 am

    Lovely ideas, especially the dessert tasting and communicating, I liked the most, thanks!

    • Reply Kimberley July 31, 2020 at 11:15 am

      Thanks for reading! The dessert tatsting is one of my favourites.

  • Reply Jessica Goodpaster June 5, 2020 at 12:46 pm

    We’ve done a few of these, but I need to add in cooking together. Great date night ideas!

    • Reply Kimberley June 5, 2020 at 6:26 pm

      That’s great! Thank you so much!

  • Reply Rodha June 5, 2020 at 10:40 am

    Great post Kimberly love your ideas I’m gonna try our dessert tasting idea!! As someone with a sweet tooth I know that that would fare well with me haha not sure about the hubby! πŸ˜‚

    • Reply Kimberley June 5, 2020 at 6:26 pm

      Haha, he’ll probably enjoy it too. Thank you for reading!

  • Reply GetSetHappy June 5, 2020 at 7:51 am

    Great tips. It’s always good to be innovative.

  • Reply Tamara May 22, 2020 at 10:08 am

    Great ideas for now with everything closed but also for those with small kids that can’t always find a babysitter to go out

    • Reply Kimberley May 22, 2020 at 6:32 pm

      I agree, thanks for reading!

  • Reply Rose Hahn May 22, 2020 at 9:19 am

    Love these ideas! And you’re so right, date nights at home can be just as good as date nights out! My husband and I have had one every week. We order take out from our favorite restaurant to help keep them in business. And then just talk and listen to music. I love the idea of playing board games, so maybe we’ll give that a try this weekend. Thank you for sharing!

    • Reply Kimberley May 22, 2020 at 6:31 pm

      I love a good game night, hope you enjoy!

  • Reply Morgan May 8, 2020 at 7:29 pm

    Great ideas, sometimes we can forget to enjoy ourselves at home. This is a good reminder to nurture your relationships during this time. Thank you!

    • Reply Kimberley May 8, 2020 at 8:46 pm

      Nurturing our relationships is extremely necessary at this time.

  • Reply Inspiroblog May 8, 2020 at 7:13 am

    I loved all these ideas. I am surely going to try with my partner! πŸ™‚ Thanks

    • Reply Kimberley May 8, 2020 at 8:46 am

      You are certainly welcome and thank you for reading!

  • Reply Sharon Green May 8, 2020 at 7:11 am

    A wonderful list of great ideas! Thanks for sharing!

  • Reply Lisa Marie Alioto May 8, 2020 at 7:03 am

    I really needed this list as we are hitting a dead end. A spa night sounds wonderful!

    • Reply Kimberley May 8, 2020 at 8:45 am

      Lol, I’m happy you found it useful. Thanks for reading!

  • Reply Stephanie May 7, 2020 at 7:49 am

    Great post! My favourite is having dinner by candlelight πŸ™‚

    • Reply Kimberley May 7, 2020 at 6:05 pm

      I like that one too. Thank you!

  • Reply Chanra May 5, 2020 at 6:21 pm

    Wonderful ideas.. we often forget how these simple things make a difference. Always good to have a quick list to use. Thanks!

  • Reply Dan "Jay" Reyes May 5, 2020 at 11:06 am

    Good suggestions for in-home date nights. I especially like the dinner by candlelight and watching movies πŸ™‚

    • Reply Kimberley May 5, 2020 at 11:43 am

      I like those too. Thanks for reading!

  • Reply Kimberley May 1, 2020 at 8:53 pm

    Don’t worry you will in time. On the bright side, you can do a few of these on your own.

  • Reply Caroline May 1, 2020 at 8:02 pm

    Such great ideas, I just wish I had someone to share them with!

  • Reply Sarah May 1, 2020 at 6:17 pm

    Love this. My husband and I read together all the time. Mostly, he reads to me before we fall asleep πŸ™‚ I love it!

    • Reply Kimberley May 1, 2020 at 8:44 pm

      That’s amazing and also a great way to bond.

  • Reply Kristaleagh Walthall May 1, 2020 at 2:44 pm

    I love this! It’s definitely been a struggle to be intentional about date night, but lists like these are SO helpful whenever we run out of ideas. Great post!

    • Reply Kimberley May 1, 2020 at 8:32 pm

      I know how it can get so I’m happy I could help.

  • Reply Keegan May 1, 2020 at 1:10 pm

    Love these ideas! Its crazy how much we take advantage of living together, but not really connecting. These are GREAT ways to connect with your SO while at home!

    • Reply Kimberley May 1, 2020 at 7:21 pm

      I agree, thank you for reading!

  • Reply Jen May 1, 2020 at 11:10 am

    These sound fun! We love watching things and doing puzzles! Trying to convince my husband to do Hunt a Killer with me but he’s not on the true crime bandwagon LOL

    • Reply Kimberley May 1, 2020 at 7:21 pm

      Lol just keep working on it and I believe he’ll humour you eventually.

  • Reply Bill @ May 1, 2020 at 9:42 am

    These are great ideas. We have our anniversary coming up in a couple weeks and it’s not looking like we will be able to go out. I’m going to take your suggestion above and set up a spa date at home πŸ™‚

    • Reply Kimberley May 1, 2020 at 12:10 pm

      Aww, Happy Anniversary! That’s a great idea and may I suggest the dessert tasting as well. Thanks for reading!

  • Reply Cynthia May 1, 2020 at 8:57 am

    I love the idea of the dessert tasting, and you could even pair it with wine! Sounds like a nice romantic date night at home. I might try it this weekend! Thanks!

    • Reply Kimberley May 1, 2020 at 9:39 am

      I support that idea. Thanks for reading!

  • Reply Rebecca @ Busy Mom Smart Mom May 1, 2020 at 6:50 am

    These are great ideas for a stay at home date night. I’m sure most people are tired of looking at one a other right now, lol. But they can be a nice way to take a break from the kids for parents.

    • Reply Kimberley May 1, 2020 at 9:20 am

      Lol I can imagine that scenario especially if they don’t usually work at home. Thanks for reading!

  • Reply Lisa Marie Alioto May 1, 2020 at 6:44 am

    Love these – and how romantic each can be!

    • Reply Kimberley May 1, 2020 at 9:13 am

      Certainly, with a little imagination. Thanks for reading!

  • Reply ABIGAIL May 1, 2020 at 6:40 am

    I love these ideas!
    Thank you for sharing these amazing tips!

  • Reply Sabrina Bullock May 1, 2020 at 6:40 am

    This is so good and full of wonderful ideas for those couple having to isolate with no where to go. Thanks! I’m sharing this on Facebook for family and friends I know, especially my daughter and her husband.

    • Reply Kimberley May 1, 2020 at 9:11 am

      Thank you! I’m happy you found it useful.

  • Reply Heidi Slowinski May 1, 2020 at 6:32 am

    These are great ideas and things a person can do solo too!

    • Reply Kimberley May 1, 2020 at 8:56 am

      That’s actually true. Thanks for reading!

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